Please release me....let me go!!!!!

Sam had a problem with Sally today. For some reason she wouldn’t sit next to him, Sam’s an adult he can accept that, but the way she rejected him annoyed him. I didn’t hear it fully but it was something like “No way am I sitting next to you, I wanna get on with my work”. So me and Sam spent parts of the morning bitching on about Sally, and when she confronted Sam later he just laughed at her and started talking to me, Sally knew we were laughing at her…I think.
I saw an episode of cheers yesterday where Frasier started to poke fun at Diane because she wouldn’t go on holiday with him. Was I doing the same thing? Maybe, but I just wanted to bring her down…she, as Sam said, thinks the world revolves around her. She needs to be opened up, at the moment she has her credit card and driving lessons to satisfy her needs. She’s at Uni, but doesn’t want to work afterwards, she wants to live off her husband. I look at her and I see a product, a hairstyle, the latest fashion item….but where is Sally? I feel as though there is beautiful person beneath all these false layers and somehow I want to bring this out…but does that side of her even exist?
Why would she open up to me? I’m not any kind of example, I’m a recluse so I shouldn’t expect change. I can see it going two ways for Sally, she meets that special person and lives a happy life or she doesn’t and ends up a bitter woman because she’ll look back and realise all the money, the cars and the clothes don’t mean that much when all is said and done.
As for myself, I have to realise that pettiness on my behalf isn’t going to change a damn thing… I have to be more constructive, at the end of the day I still care for her…why be a dick?